Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Remembering A Part vs. Apart:


I would like to take a moment to thank you all for welcoming me to the Our Lady of Mount Carmel family!  Over the past several weeks, I have taken time to try my best to acclimate myself to a new school, staff, faculty, and community.  As I continue adjust and become a part of this amazing family, I was reminded of God's mission in my life.  Each of us, as Christians, are asked to be a part of a greater purpose than ourselves.  Each job we do for this parish and school, is to be done with a total submission and understanding of that purpose.  As my transition reminded me of this, it also reminded me of an article I once read, and a reflection I previously wrote.  If I may, I would like to post that in this Corner as a reminder for all of us that our choices either make us a part...or set us apart of God's purpose in our lives.  

 As I was reading some articles on vocations, I came across an interesting article about the difference in meaning for apart, and a-part.  Apart, means to be separated by distance or time.  A Part, means to be a piece of something that forms the whole of something.   I found this to be extremely interesting in how it is relevant to one's life.  Take for example our Schools, Parishes, and Communities.  I have referred to this in the past as the "I"nstitution using a capital I to focus on the importance of the role each of them play in a unified mission.  In this example, each of these three should be "A Part" of the whole, not "Apart" from one another.  True unity and growth cannot happen without that.  

Let's take it one further step and look at ourselves as individuals.  We are asked to be "A Part" of the Catholic church, it's teachings, it's education and formation processes, and its overall mission when it comes to utilizing our talents to be disciples of Christ.   However, like myself many times, we fall outside of this idea making us "Apart" from the Catholic mission.  Why is this?  Why do often times ignore the calling of God?  Many times, we simply don't feel it is us that God is talking to.  "Who am I?" right?  "Why would God call me to drop everything and follow this path or that path, I mean, I'm sure someone will step in and take care of this particular issue."  Or maybe it's the notion that "Look, I'm just going to keep my head down, do my thing and ride this out.  God wouldn't be asking me to make these changes in my life without a sign or something, and this feeling I have, these thoughts I struggle with understanding, that certainly can't be a sign."  Then there is another in particular that I have been guilty of many times "Okay God, I think I understand what you are asking me to do and honestly, I'm okay with that but can't it wait a while, I mean, everything seems to be going alright does it have to be right now?"  Ask yourself if any of these sound familiar to you.  

Apart and A Part.  Interesting.  Recently I was listening to a presentation that was given some years ago, by a former professional soccer player from Bloomington Illinois who gave it up to become a priest.  In his presentation, he referred to a book her was reading called "Rome Sweet Home" by Scott Hahn where, in one of the stories there was a couple who was converting to the Catholic Faith and the wife had been having trouble with her conversion process.  She knew she was going to convert but she just wasn't quite sure when until she ran across this quote: "Delayed obedience is Disobedience."  This statement hit me square in the face!  Delayed obedience takes us further Apart not only from what God wants us to do, but apart from the whole never allowing it to become what it could be as it will be missing a piece and, never allowing us become what we could be as well.

My conclusion from this is that I don't want to be Apart from what God wants for me.  No matter how confusing or untimely in my point of view that it may be.  I want to be A Part of His plan for me, A Part of the "whole" whatever that may be.  Are we doing all we can?  Are we listening to God when he calls us?  Are we turning our lives over to Him so that we may become A Part of his plan he has for our lives?  Or, are we looking away, waiting for someone else to do His work, ignoring the call because it is too confusing or doesn't fit into our time frame, all the while drifting further and further Apart from what God is calling us to do?

Mr. Swann/Principal
Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic School