Tuesday, December 3, 2019


Walking with God… A Reflection for 12/3/19:

            I remember the light posts running on the sidewalks down College Avenue dimly lighting the path at 5:00am as I walked toward the dining hall on the south side of campus only able to hear the crunching of the fresh snow beneath my feet.  I remember the wind blowing through the bare trees and thinking, I seriously must be the only person awake on campus right now and feeling like I was the only person in the world walking along, quietly, talking to God.  I remember this as if it were just this morning because truthfully, it was the closest, and most vulnerable I have felt in the presence of God just walking and talking as if we were old friends, heading to a campus job.  Simple.

            Simple, yet so difficult:  Why is it that prayer seems so difficult at times?  The event that I just described to you described every Tuesday morning in the fall of my freshman year at Blackburn College.  As a campus job filling time between classes and football practice, I worked in the dining hall the majority of the day (breakfast, lunch, dinner prep) each Tuesday.  These days began a little before 5 in the morning and living on campus in the northern hall, I walked the length of campus to get to work.  I’m not sure how, or when it began but one day I just began to literally talk to God, not so much in prayer, but as if he were walking right next to me.  This was still the closest I ever felt to God, walking in the quiet of dawn, discussing events of the day or week in conversation.  Though I have tried, I have never felt quite the same feeling since.

            The season of Advent is purposed not only for the preparation of Christmas, Christ’s birth, but as a time to draw closer to Him through prayer.  Advent allows us to strengthen our relationship with our Heavenly King, and to remind ourselves of why we believe what we believe in the first place.  Simple, yet still difficult.  In a time that is devoted to Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, Cyber Monday, deals and sales, shopping and festivities, we often find it difficult to make time to walk and talk with God.  Are all these things a barrier which keeps us from the purpose of Advent or, better yet, are we using them as barriers in order to not spend the time to talk with Him?  Perhaps the reason I cannot rekindle that feeling I had during the fall semester over 25 years ago is because I haven’t made the effort to do so.

            We pray for peace yet cannot bring peace to ourselves.  We pray for forgiveness yet often, fail to forgive others.  We pray for more yet give less.  We pray that God listens to us yet often, we fail to listen to Him.  Why is it so difficult?  Obviously, there are many reasons and answers to this last question however, what if we tried this:  This Advent season, just take a walk, alone, with God…and see what happens.  As we prepare for the Holy Christmas Season, may God bless and keep you and may your relationship with Christ be a reflection of the beauty it was meant to be.  Amen.

Mr. Swann/Principal